add apples brown sugar granulated sugar cinnamon nutmeg lemon juice and a pinch of salt and cook until apples begin to soften
whisk cornstarch with water then stir into the skillet and cook until glossy and thickened
remove from heat and stir in vanilla then cool to room temperature.
Make Cream Layer
beat cream cheese and powdered sugar until smooth
whisk pudding mix with cold milk until thickened then beat into the cream cheese with vanilla
fold in whipped topping until fully combined.
Assemble And Chill
mix graham cracker crumbs with melted butter brown sugar and cinnamon until evenly moistened
press half the crumb mixture into the bottom of a 9x13 inch dish
spread half the cream layer evenly then spoon half the apple filling over the top
repeat layers ending with apples then sprinkle with remaining crumbs and pecans
drizzle caramel sauce and refrigerate at least 1 hour before serving.
Notes
1. Use apple pie filling to skip cooking and reduce cook time; swap graham crackers for vanilla wafers or gingersnaps; use Greek yogurt whipped topping or light cream cheese to reduce calories; best texture after chilling 2 to 4 hours